Mar
13
Is it time to have my dog put to sleep?
ByMy shih-tzu is at least 15 years old (not sure due to the fact we got him from an aminal rescue center). He has diseased kidneys, loss of vision and hearing and has been loosing weight. He used to be about 16lbs and is now about 10lbs. He does eat good.Lately he has been urinating in the house and seems to be taking seizures. Last night he vomited with no warning and his heart was racing and he was shaking his head. He just wanted me to hold him. He normally sleeps all day and no longer has a desire to play. I think he is being kept alive because of all the love I give him. Is this possible? Could it be time for me to let go? How will I know ?


14 Comments
March 13th, 2010 at 6:09 am
I think it’s time to let them go when their quality of life has diminished. He seems to be having a very hard time.
If you think he is in pain, or unhappy, it might be time to go. He is very old and seems to be sick.
It’s a VERY hard thing to do, trust me I know, but sometimes when they get old, days jsut get harder and harder for them and it’s hard to see them struggling so sometimes it best to just let them go.
Sorry for the troubles he is having and good luck.
March 13th, 2010 at 6:44 am
Talk to your vet and ask his/her opinion. Based on what you’ve described here, I would seriously be considering euthanizing the dog.
To me, quality of life is far more important than quantity. And making an animal suffer because you’re too afraid to let go is selfish and cruel.
March 13th, 2010 at 7:38 am
To be Honest i think you should take him or her to a vet and see what they say otherwise just leave it and see how she goes and if she gets worse i would see someone about it :]
March 13th, 2010 at 8:00 am
im sorry to say but if they good days out weigh the bad and the dog is suffering it is time to let him rest…. it isnt doing him any good to be living like that
March 13th, 2010 at 8:04 am
the way i feel about it is this: look at his quaility of life. is he happy? does he have a good life? hes eating so thats great. if hes in pain and hes suffering then maybe its time. take him to the vet for a PE see if the vet thinks its time. good luck
March 13th, 2010 at 8:09 am
Only you can decide if its time.IMHO it is time to let him go.If it was my pet and he had given me so many years of joy,I would have to do this one last act of love for him.
Bless you and take comfort…dogs do go to Heaven.
March 13th, 2010 at 8:14 am
From what you said, I think it would be best to put him down. Sometimes dogs fight to stay alive because of their owners, knowing they’ll be upset when they go. :/ I know it s**ks to even think about it, but it happens, sadly.
I’m sorry you have to go through this.
March 13th, 2010 at 8:53 am
sorry 2 say. but…
yes.
i do think it is time 2 let him go, it may seem hard but it could be the best think 4 him. if you really DONT want to do this then you could wait a couple more days, but it would be ore likely for him 2 still die if you do.
March 13th, 2010 at 9:23 am
If he is not suffering, don’t put him down. My dogs (over 2 dozen so far in my lifetime) tell me when they are ready. Not the other way around. He may be looking for you to comfort him right now because the end is nearing, but you will know in your heart when it is time. He will let you know. Please do one thing, though. Don’t let him spend his last moments in a stranger’s arms. Be there with him, comfort him, tell him you love him when it happens. Look into his eyes and let him know it will be okay. I learned this when I was young. I wasn’t with my beloved Samson for his final breath and I regret it to this day. Since then, I have been with every one of my animals (dogs, cats, etc…). My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. God bless.
March 13th, 2010 at 9:40 am
If he is in pain, and it sounds like he is, you should put him out of his misery. I’m having the same problems with my mom and her chihuahua who is 15 yrs old and now blind. It’s the best thing to do. I know it’s hard, but you have to think of the dog, too. If it was you and you were in pain and there was nothing that could fix it, would you want to be kept alive?
March 13th, 2010 at 10:32 am
This is the hardest and most heartbreaking thing. I had to have my Basset Hound put down this morning. She was 11, full of tumors and moaning/crying all the time. I took her to the vet about a month ago. They were great, they said look for signs like not eating, constant crying, lack of bladder/bowel control. This week, she started peeing everywhere, and she just cried. Thankfully, my dad offered to come take her for me. It’s difficult. I’ve been crying for 2 days straight now. I’ve had her since she was 10 weeks old. No matter how much you plan, you’ll never be ready.
If you are keeping him alive, for you, think hard, love means letting go. Believe me it’s not easy, as I type this through tears, my friends and family tell me that she is not in pain anymore. I’d much rather cry because I miss her terribly, than listen to her cry because she is in so much pain.
I hope this helps. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
March 13th, 2010 at 10:59 am
One thing we were taught in school is that if the quality of life is gone, then it might be time to consider ueuthanizing.
It does not sound like his quality is very good, poor baby!
Only you and your family can make the decision to let him go. I too was faced with this decision not too long ago. It breaks your heart, but for me, knowing my baby was suffering, no matter how much I loved him, because I loved him, I could not let him suffer any longer.
After all they do for us in their short lifetimes, I think it is only fair that we have a way to relieve their suffering, no matter how much it hurts us.
You will know when the time is right. I wish there was a miracle pill, you know?! I NEVER wanted to have to choose that option, even though I have helped clients with it dozens of times.
Don’t let anyone talk you into it if you are not ready, it will only leave you feeling guilty.
Bless your heart, I am sorry you or anyone else ever gets put in this position. Follow your heart and do what you think is right.
***”He is your friend, your partner, your defender, …your DOG…you are his life, his love, his leader.
He will be yours, faithful and true, till the last beat of his heart….you owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion.”
God bless all our good dogs, I know they will be waiting for us when we get there!
March 13th, 2010 at 11:52 am
I am a vet and although I haven’t examined your animal I do think that euthanasia may be the kindest option now.
I would strongly encourage you to go and see your local vet and speak to them about tio but it sounds like his quality of life is very poor and keeping him alive may be more for your sake than his at the moment.
It is never an easy decision but as an owner you have to do what is best for your pet even if it is harder for you. You definitely don’t want future regrets that you held on too long and let him suffer.
I hope that helps
March 13th, 2010 at 12:09 pm
You will just know when it is time. You will sense it and so will your dog. It will be almost as if they are asking you to please relieve them of their pain. It is the most difficult thing in the world, I have to warn you. We went through it twice in 3 months with our 2 dogs.